How do I know what women are looking for in a man? I am qualified to answer this because I am a woman, and I have found a wonderful man. I have had many men in my life over the years, and unfortunately they were not good enough to keep around. However, the one I have now is definitely a keeper! He has certain qualities that make him a keeper, and these are all good examples of what women are looking for in a man.

The top quality that makes my man a keeper is that he is a man’s man. He isn’t overly macho. He can be extremely masculine while still respecting women. He comes home and treats me with the love and respect that I deserve after spending all day hanging out with the guys.

A true man?s man doesn’t have to wine and dine you, but he does. For the most part he is sensitive to how you feel and what you need. He will do all the right things to make you feel valued from holding your hand to making your dinner.

Beyond this respect and sensitivity, woman want to be valued. A man’s man like mine should ask for his lady’s opinion, and he should take it seriously. He should be able to engage in serious, intelligent conversation with his woman.

Women need a man who is intelligent. The respect and value of a man is of no use to a woman if he can not understand her opinion. He has to be smart enough to hold an intelligent, adult conversation.

A true manas man must be fluent in the many languages of love. He should not only know how and when to do all of these things - he has to actually DO them: buy you gifts, touch your hand, share his feelings, spend quality time with you, and provide a ’service.’

Finally, a true man?s man is not afraid of losing his identity. He cannot make you feel like a woman unless he is in touch with his feminine side. He will use that side to reach out and touch yours, in just the right places.

So, what are women really looking for in a man? We are not looking for Mr. Macho, you can keep him; or Mr. Right who does not exist. We are looking for that one man who knows how to make you feel like a woman, and does.

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